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Accepting Less - Dangers Of Getting Into A Relationship With A Woman Who Isnt What You Really Want It is amazing how a man might date a woman he does not particularly like including at the time she dumps him; find himself trying to be the man she wanted him to be even though he didn't actually like her. Suddenly, his belief becomes every women wants what she wanted therefore I must become that in order to attract another woman in my life. How does a man change his beliefs so easily especially based on what a woman he didn't like that much to begin with wants? Surprisingly, the pain of losing something you don't need might be much more painful than losing something you do want. When you settle for a relationship with a woman you like just a little bit it is like a Heavyweight Champion putting his belt on the line to a absolutely no name boxer. If the champ wins he gains absolutely nothing (staying in the relationship or you breaking up with her) including if he loses he loses everything including falls below the new champ (her breaking up with you). Whatever her reason for breaking up with you is now a flaw that you need to work on because if it wasn't good enough for her, how could it be good enough for a woman you actually do like? So how do you avoid a situation like the from happening? You don't allow a woman you are not completely attracted to even compete for a relationship. You might have sex with her, go out with her, even become emotionally attached to her. Yet the moment you find yourself looking at a possible relationship with her, ask yourself if you might including need to do better? If you answer yes to the question realize that you are putting a lot on the line by accepting less than you need including gaining absolutely nothing at all as well.
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