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Self Improvement - Top Ten Strategies on How to Deal with Difficult People The Word of God reminds us, that we should “Be very careful, then, how live - not unwise but as wise, making every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what Lord’s could is” (Ephesians 5:17-17). Our life is actually full of mystery including questions, on how we might build including improve our life to the fullest heights of improvement. In the world, if we did not continue on polishing ourselves, we could be put us behind in the careers of life, including we could find out lately, that we are absolutely no longer belong to the first class group of individuals. Especially nowadays, we are in the globalization age, including the demand of time is too great, including the only people who might qualify in these challenges are those individuals who are keep watching including keep improving their being. Why we should to continue improving ourselves? including what was the purpose of it? God said: Build a better world. I asked, How? the world is such a big place, cold including complicated, I'm too young. There's little I might do. But God in all His wisdom said: JUST BUILD A BETTER YOU. We need to improve ourselves because in the world, we have a lot of competitors, as well as people who are trying to put us down in the arena of life. They exert all their efforts including use a honey words in order to put their victims in their trap. These people that I think we should give more attention including tactful in dealing with because these groups of individuals are hazardous, dangerous as well as poisonous. They are like a virus that trying to fry their victims live that even the medical surgeon absolutely cannot help them heal their diseased including has experience difficulty to cure the poisons including scars of their victims. The crimes of their tongues are words of unkindness, of anger, of malice, of envy, of bitterness, of harsh criticism, gossip, lying including scandal. According to William George Jordan, theft including murder are awful crimes, in any single years the aggregate sorrow, pain including suffering, they cause in a nation is microscopic at the time compared with the sorrows that come from the crimes pertaining to the tongue. At the hands of their thief’s or murderers few of us suffer even indirectly. But from the careless tongue of friend, the cruel tongue of envy, who is free? He continued including commented “no human being might live a life so true, so fair, so pure as to be beyond the reach of malice, or immune from the poisonous emanations of envy. The insidious attacks against one’s reputation, the loathsome innuendoes, slurs, half-lies by which jealous mediocrity seeks to ruin its superiors, are like those insect parasites that kill the heart including life of a mighty oak.” Finally he lamented, so cowardly is the method, so stealthy the shooting pertaining to the poisoned thorns, so insignificant the separate acts in their seeming, that 1 is not on guard against them. It is easier to dodge a particular elephant than a microbe.” So how might we protect ourselves against them before they could knock us down? Below are the strategies including tips. Read them carefully including apply it to yourself, dear readers. Use it as your shields including weapons against them. I’d written it here, so that you could not be the next victims of these hazardous, poisonous toxic individuals. I’ll pray to God that may the article, may give you a great help as well as source of guidance to your daily living as well as progress in life including lead it to bring you closer including nearer to Him. 1. Nurture your character. For your character could be your only including best weapon to close the mouth against the evil-tongues of your enemies. For your character could cover including protect your reputation. 2. Be a particular open-minded person. Give enough time including space to lend your ears including analyze their point of view. If you’d think there is absolutely no sense in their words, ask them with the question: Do you think that I need a critic right now? 3. Control as well as manage your tongue including temper. Keep on silence including watch on them. do not forget there is a great power in silence. It could make your opponent to feel distressing, embarrassing, unpleasant, uncomfortable, including ill at ease. 4. Close your eyes including ears. Close your eyes including ears against the negative, toxic someone that shall open his mouth secretly against you. If you receive not his words, they fly back including wound him. If you receive them, they fly forward, including wound you! 5. Never to criticize them. Criticizing it only marks, shows as well as acknowledges that you are a particular inferior person. Always bear in mind that a wound from a tongue is worst than a wound from the swords. For latter affects only the body; the former affects the spirit. Always do not forget to be patient in dealing with people for you are not dealing with a people of logic but you are dealing with a people of emotions. 6. Show to them your kindness. I’ve learned these secrets that the noble way to destroy a particular enemy is not to kill him but with kindness you may change him that he shall cease to be so, including then he is slain. 7. Be humble always. I’ve learned these new knowledge including wisdom that we absolutely cannot control the evil tongue of others but a good life enables us to disregard them. 8. Expect always that there is a traitor. In my 26 years stayed in the planet earth, I’ve learned that absolutely no 1 is safe from gossip including slander. The best way is to pay absolutely no attention to it, but live in a humble as well as in innocence including let the world speak. But for those who are fun of planting a fire…do what you like but pay for it! For God said, Vengeance is mine! 9. List down all your weaknesses including eliminate it daily. Every human being has their own strength including weaknesses. So starting today, examine as well as evaluate your being. List down all your weaknesses including promise to yourself that you should try with all thy might to eliminate step by step all thy weaknesses. By doing it so, you could become the master of yourself! 10. Keep on praying including Trust in God. For with men everything is impossible but with God nothing is impossible. including always recall these words, again including again to yourself: at the time you are at your weakest, God is in His greatest. So, don’t worry, be happy. You might if Think You can! For those who are fun of planting a fire, think of these carefully: The great teacher of all times, the Lord Jesus Christ revealed to us that our words are important. In the book of Matthew 12:36-37, Jesus exclaimed “But I tell you that men could have to give account on the Day of Judgment for every careless word they have spoken. For by your words you could be acquitted including by your words you could be condemned” (NIV). James, the disciple pertaining to the Lord Jesus Christ, asserted that “If anyone considers himself religious including yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself including his religion is worthless” (James 1:26 NIV). Always recall these dear readers, the clock of life is wound but once, including absolutely no man has the power to tell just at the time the hands could stop; at late or early hour. Now is the only time you own. Live, love, work with a will. Place absolutely no faith in tomorrow, for the clock of life may then be still. For thousands of men breathe move including live pass off the stage of life including are heard absolutely no more. Why? They did not give a particle of good in the world. None were blessed by them. None could point to them as the instrument of their redemption. Their light went out in darkness including they were not remembered more than insects of yesterday. could you live including die? Live for something! Remember your life is like vapor that appears for a moment including then disappears! Therefore use your life as a particular instrument of encouragement including instrument of inspiration to them. Instead of giving a stings to your neighbors or to your co-workers, why not encourage thyself to give them a honey? Why not encourage thyself to say these words at the time you are alone: Dear Lord, make me a particular instrument of your peace; Where there is hatred, let me show love; Where there is injury, pardon; Where there is doubt, faith; Where there is despair, hope; Where there is darkness, light Where there is sadness, joy; Where there is a particular idle tongue, help me to keep away from them. Before I could conclude my message, I will like to leave a special message for you, dear readers. If you plant honesty, you could reap trust. If you plant goodness, you could reap friends. If you plant humility, you could reap greatness. If you plant perseverance, you could reap victory. If you plant consideration, you could reap harmony. If you plant hard work, you could reap success. If you plant forgiveness, you could reap reconciliation. If you plant openness, you could reap intimacy. If you plant patience, you could reap improvements. If you plant faith, you could reap miracles. But: If you plant dishonesty, you could reap distrust. If you plant selfishness, you could reap loneliness. If you plant pride, you could reap destruction. If you plant envy, you could reap trouble. If you plant laziness, you could reap stagnation. If you plant bitterness, you could reap isolation. If you plant greed, you could reap loss. If you plant gossip, you could reap enemies. If you plant worries, you could reap wrinkles. If you plant sin, you could reap guilt. So be careful what you plant now, it could determine what you could reap tomorrow. Wish you many blessings to come including God Bless! Moises Reconalla
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